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FEEDBACK ABOUT OUR SERVICES FROM FRANCESCO (CLEVELAND, USA) JUNE 2019

June 22, 2019 by

Let me start with that everything is meant to be as respectful as possible to all prospective men that decide on joining Ukraine Brides Agency.

Prior to joining UBA, I did as much research as possible to find real comfort in believing in a site like this one. I am here to share this because any agency that decides to follow laws of safety for these fine women offer travel services through an approved International travel group, and translation services helped me decide to join. Safe to say this is an investment that you can place trust in.

Yes, this is an investment of time and finances. Everything in life has a cost to it. It still dating any way you look at it. What is worth to you? 

That said, let’s move on to the treatment and quality of people here and then to how well served you will be by the office of UBA.

Before anything, do some research and read the enlightening information UBA offers in the Dashboard about the culture and people. Look online as well for more info in print and videos. Get a feel for the region as much as possible.

Hopefully, you will begin to grasp and understand better how we are different but still similar. I being a son of immigrants myself believe I still have a barometer for having a good sense of culture and understanding. However, everything comes down to one thing.

We need to begin with a sense of respect for our fellow humans. Even, immense respect. If, you want to play stay home and find your playmates. If, you seek a serious relationship then read on.

Ukrainian women young and older all deserve to be treated just like as we men need. With mutual respect. Please, enter with an open mind. Analyze every letter of every word if you must. Analyze every word muttered. Develop trust. This is key!

However, Do Not disrespect these women. I have given much thought to our similarities as different cultures. I determined we as citizens of this great world seek the same thing…most of us. We seek companionship and the love and friendship that comes in the form of genuinely caring for another person’s well-being. This is what we would call being in love with the one we resonate with. Please, understand this!

Many of the women I have dealt with are fine women. Finding common values and focused on the same target is key. Determining the target is the process we need to seek and pursue together and find that common ground. Therefore, I have come to understand even further how the vows of marriage transcend the borders of everyday life. It applies to everyone. Yet, looking deep within is key before embarking on this important endeavor.

I have finally had the pleasure of meeting a wonderful woman who sees value in me. Ukrainian women have a very astute character. An ability to analyze and still accept one’s faults or experiences. We all have a past they reply. We are not perfect and we need to look beyond and never backward. It’s a new day when we engage a new person.

Generally speaking, this has been a learning experience from the standpoint of careful analysis. Again, our similarities and differences. We can overcome anything if we wish to put the “Patient Effort” into learning by reading in chat, listening in video chat, listening when a mutual desire to meet is organized. Paying attention to details.

Personally, I have patience since I had parents from Italy. A life experience that has trained me for this endeavor. You have to love, to listen carefully and enjoy the accented voice like any song you love. Enjoy every moment. Patience (a marital vow) is key!

I cannot say enough about how my choice to come here was an eye-opening experience in a positive light. It takes time to meet someone that truly is serious about making a life-altering move. Marriage and moving, after all, is a major commitment. Don’t sell yourself. Be your authentic self.

Certainly, commitment is something we must emphasize here before I end. It is truly lacking in the world. Help it, don’t add to the mess. If…..you are here to play then stop reading this and just leave the innocence alone! No one likes their feelings messed with. And, if you are one of those men without a heart then Stop. Don’t tarnish the name of the rest of us men. Men that have great intentions to try and bring some joy into another fellow humans life. Don’t misrepresent the male gender.

I believe I have truly found a woman who understands me and fits me like a glove. Now, this could be you. Be an honorable man. Have great intentions. Be a real man as these women are seeking. Treating them with the utmost respect is the right thing to do. Understanding also the traditional values most still possess and are known for is something to not be disrespected (Emphasis added).

Speaking on the level of service and courtesy of this agency I must give high marks. UBA has been in my strong opinion an agency that has built this company with integrity. I have always had courteous assistance and Never been rudely treated. Helpful and kind. Everyone I have had a chance to deal with has been a wonder for me. An experience that we should all model all over the world on a daily basis. I actually love to correspond on any issue I may have because of their gentile manner.

Let’s not forget the translators. Let’s give them high marks for the value of this service that bridges us as people. The job they perform is phenomenal and they should all be praised, too.

Moreover, the travel agency is also hugely helpful for those of us that do not have the skills to read and speak Russian and Ukrainian. Get your Google Translator app and venture out. I was in Zhytomyr and Kyiv and felt at ease. Do the research and you will see that it is a very safe place. I cannot forget my new private driver Michail! Get ready I am coming back in 2 weeks. High marks to the whole team at UBA!

Just as an FYI… I am not getting paid for this review in case anyone is wondering. My payment will be the day I have my committed relationship which is well above the morning crest of dawn. It is on the cusp of commitment. 

Men, let’s spread some greatness in the world and make it a better place. Make love not war through the gift of giving and taking. Let’s truly understand that we cannot expect to have true love if we as men mistreat what a woman is capable of delivering.

Peace and love through the act of real kindness, respect, patience, and a gentle demeanour – it must be mutual. If, it is not then obviously she is not for you and vice versa. They are not our slaves. They are our mirror of goodness. Create the team to a happy home life that is possible. Spread the love guys. Spread the love!

Please, do not hesitate to make the first step to your success. More information you can find on our blog.

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THE FIVE GOLDEN RULES FOR CONTACTING WOMEN ON DATING SITES

June 21, 2019 by

Love is an innate feeling that fuels the biological and neurological condition. We all have a desire for a strong connection and to be with someone who fulfills our heart, soul, and mind. We do not want to feel empty.

Messaging women on a dating site is not always easy. Competition can be tough, especially if you are admiring for an attractive woman. Here are the five golden rules to keep in mind when you are composing your first message to the possible woman of your dreams.

HAVE A SUCCESSFUL PROFILE.

Ladies always read a man’s profile attentively. A good photo is obviously a must. You will miss your chance to win her and those beautiful messages will not help if your photo is not appropriate.

BE RESPECTFUL.

Different women are going to respond in different ways to different messages, but the vast majority of women prefer to be treated with respect. It is fine to be a little bit cheeky and flirty, but there is a fine line between that and being rude or nasty. Although, do not discuss her appearance in a direct way and do not send any weird photos.

PAY ATTENTION.

Look carefully at the lady’s photo’s and have a good read of her dating profile. More relevant, start the conversation in the best way you can. Studying her profile will help you to write her not just an ordinary message but a nice and interesting one.

KEEP IT SHORT.

Do not write essays. A couple of paragraphs will be enough. However, try to include some interesting questions in your message and show her your curiosity.

DO NOT TRY TO HARD TO IMPRESS.

Moreover, it is hard to impress on a dating site, but trying too hard to be cool can often change the situation. Do not try to make yourself to be a superhero, be yourself. Most women hate when men show off.

We hope that the advice given in this article will help you to find your Ukrainian lady through our dating site. You can find more tips on our blog.


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6 Qualities To Look For In A Woman To Marry

June 19, 2019 by
Bride and groom

You’ve been dating a while. You’ve made a commitment. You’ve moved in together. Everything seems practically idyllic. You love her. She loves you. And you want to spend the rest of your life with her.

But is she really the one?

Marriage is never going to be a passing whim.  It requires not just time and energy, but sacrifice. In the first throes of a relationship, it’s very easy to assume the best about your partner. She’ll be faithful. She’ll be loyal. She’ll be supportive. She’ll share your values. And above all, the certifiably dynamic chemistry you share will never fade.

But first impressions can sometimes lie. The fact is, a happy marriage is never guaranteed. While you may be willing to put in the necessary work to ensure your time together is productive and satisfying, are you sure she’s willing to? Marriage is an equal exchange. You only get what you put in.

Before you take the plunge, you may want to ask yourself what exactly you’re looking for. Who will you marry? Who do you want to marry? What qualities does your ideal wife possess? What can she offer you that no one else can? What flaws are you willing to tolerate? What flaws aren’t you willing to? How does she complete you? Does she even need to? Above all, what makes her a good woman worth marrying?

Goals and values are highly personal things. And while your partner might not share yours in every respect, they should still be as supportive of them as much as you might be of theirs.  Common ground. Mutual respect. These are the cornerstones of a happy and productive marriage. But you have to know what you’re looking for first. Here’s what to look for in a good woman to marry:

Honesty

It’s the bedrock of any relationship, both professionally and personally. Without it, there is no harmony. No trust. And no understanding. So why is it so difficult to come by?

Part of the reason is because manipulation is a defense mechanism we frequently use rather than face the truth about ourselves. We’ve all experienced it to some degree or another, sometimes at an early age. It’s a cycle we can stop. But if you’re going to spend the rest of your life with a woman, there needs to be a fundamental acceptance of both of your flaws as well as your virtues. And that requires transparency. If you can’t be upfront with your wife, you can’t expect her to be upfront with you. Acceptance of one another is a two way street in marriage.

Goals

There’s a very strong chance the woman you will wind up marrying may not share all of your goals and ambitions, and that’s a good thing. It shows independence. It shows she has a mind of her own. But she should have some clearly defined set of goals in her life. Without them, she’s directionless—and neither family nor a life together can be built without direction.

It may be that you have two fundamentally different outlooks on life. Are you willing to accept hers without sacrificing your own? This tends to present a problem for many couples unwilling to recognize that differences are complementary, not conflicting. Recognizing that the woman you want to marry has dreams and goals of her own doesn’t necessarily mean belittling yours, but working together despite any seeming differences.

Family

Neither of you may be looking to start a family of your own. Nor should you feel ashamed if you don’t. Choosing not to raise children is a personal choice, and isn’t a concern of anyone else. But you can’t forget your roots. For better or worse, your family played a role in shaping you. And the same can be said of your partner.

If you have decided to make the commitment to raising a family make certain that you both are fully prepared for the task that lies ahead. It requires a sacrifice unlike any other you may have made before. It means nights without sleep. It means putting someone else’s needs before yours. It means a strength unlike anything you may have felt was inside of you. And it means to love and compassion far beyond what you and she may share. Take all of these into consideration.

Reason

Love is rarely a rational thing. It comes about suddenly, and sometimes with the most unlikely people. And for the most part, we realize and accept this for being what it is: maddening, frustrating, invigorating and something we wouldn’t want to change for anything else.

But there’s a difference between the irrationality of love and a wholesale lack of reason. Disagreements and the occasional spat will be inevitable; but stubbornness and anger aren’t qualities anyone should look for in a wife. They’re not healthy in any relationship, marital or otherwise. If she’s prone to fits of jealousy with no apparent cause or takes the slightest criticism less than constructively, these are red flags that you may want to reevaluate whether or not your life together will be productive.

Intelligence

Women often state that the most attractive part of a man is his brain. Why should it be any different for you?

Looks fade. And physical standards of beauty can change over time. But intelligence never goes out of style. If a woman is incapable of holding a meaningful conversation with you for more than two minutes, then ask yourself: are you looking for a wife or simply a trophy? Because if it’s the latter, you should reconsider whether or not marriage is something you’re ready to commit to. 

Affection

Communication. Warmth. Loyalty. We all know they’re necessary to any successful marriage. But how many relationships have you been in where they’re lacking?

Chances are, quite a few. Which is why it’s fundamental to find yourself in a relationship which is as nurturing as it is exciting. Marriage can’t entered into half-heartedly if you expect it to survive. Both you and your wife deserve each other’s warmth, compassion and support without question. Anything less is merely a question of convenience. And you may find convenience will frequently be more trouble than it’s actually worth. Don’t waste your time with anything less than the love and affection you deserve.


Are you looking for a true soul mate? One who understands your needs? One who can give you the support and love you deserve? At Ukraine Brides Agency, we’ve been matching some of the most caring, compassionate and beautiful Ukrainian women with deserving partners from all corners of the globe since 2009. Try us today for free at https://www.ukrainebridesagency.com/

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10 Activities For Couples That Will Bring You Closer Together

June 12, 2019 by
Couple working out together

We’ve all been there in a relationship. The rut. The love may still be there, and it’s stronger than ever. The passion’s still there—occasionally. But the excitement?

Maybe that fizzled out a long time ago.

Sure, there’s lots of things you can do together to add some life to a dull routine. A nature hike. Scuba diving. The beach. Tennis lessons. But what happens when it’s pouring outside? What if you’re an urban dweller several hours away from a scenic getaway? What if neither of you are particularly outdoors-y? And what if your ideal getaway is simply at home in front of a fire with a glass or two of wine?

Routine may bring a sense of familiarity, but it also brings predictability. Boredom. And frequently frustration. As a result, you can sometimes find yourselves drifting apart. And if you drift too far apart, you may find that romance fading slowly away along with your time.

The good news? There are simple everyday things you can do together both in the home and away from the home which can rekindle that spark! You don’t have to travel hours away to rediscover what made you fall in love with one another. Whether you’re cooped up in the house or simply want to explore all your city has to offer you, couples activities can be both mundane and inventive. Exciting and comforting. Romantic and sentimental. And above all, fun. And the best news?

Many of them are completely free.

Whether you’re looking to reignite your intimacy or simply want to spend more quality time together, here are 10 of the best indoor activities for couples on your next rainy day.

Indoor Couple Activities At Home

There’s more to indoor activities than watching TV. A lot more. As the old saying goes, the couple that plays together stays together. You don’t have to fall into the same old dull routine the next time you find yourselves stuck in the house. There’s always plenty of time to catch up on your favorite shows. Here are some activities for you as a couple to try at home.

1. Cooking

Have a favorite recipe you’re dying to test out? Haven’t found the time or the opportunity to do so yet? While eating may be one of the most common ways two or more people bond, there’s something particularly intimate about the act of cooking together. It’s as much about the joy of creation as it is the joy of sharing. Neither of you may be Jacques Pepin (in fact, you may actually wind up butchering something as simple as scrambled eggs if you’re like many of us), but the simple act of cooking together can bring you closer than you ever imagined⁠—no matter how messy or disastrous the results might be.

2. Board Games

Monopoly does not have a monopoly on board games. There’s plenty of adult board games available for couples⁠. Some are nostalgic. Some are whimsical. And some are, yes… risque. That’s part of the fun. Whether you’re feeling playful, competitive or just plain “randy”, there’s a board game to suit your needs. Who knows? You might even have some old favorites collecting dust in your basement.

3. Exercise

A healthy body might mean a healthy mind, but healthy bodies mean healthy relationships. You don’t have spend an exorbitant amount at your local gym to enjoy the benefits of exercising together. Whether it’s free weights, yoga, calisthenics or tossing a medicine ball back and forth, get in touch with your body. It will help you get in touch with each others’, as well.

4. Art Therapy

No, neither of you may be Rembrandt. But that doesn’t mean you can’t create art together. Remember, creative expression is fairly versatile. It can include everything from painting together to practicing a musical instrument to scrap booking; the possibilities are endless. Why not take turns at writing your own novel—with yourselves as the main characters? It just might teach you more about one another than you ever imagined.

5. Start Your Bucket List

This actually isn’t as morbid as many people assume. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. Creating a bucket list can be a life affirming exercise that can teach you just how much you have yet to explore in life together. Whether it’s taking an excursion to a distant locale or simply learning a hobby, couple activities are just as dependent on seizing the moment as anything else in life. Don’t confine yourself to the ordinary. There’s an entire world of vast and strange experiences waiting for the both of you.

Indoor Couple Activities Away From Home

Of course, there’s no reason why couple activities need to be enjoyed enjoyed from the comfort of your own home. Sometimes you simply need to get away—and there’s a good chance an entire city you haven’t explored yet is out there only several blocks away. If you’re both feeling cabin fever, here are some surefire cures:

6. Museum And Gallery Openings

Don’t passively observe reproductions of art through books. Experience them up close and in person. Even if you can’t tell a Rauschenberg from a Rothko, you can both learn and grow together through actively exploring your local art culture. You’d be surprised how much local talent is hiding right underneath your nose.

7. Adult Education

No, we don’t necessarily mean going back for your Master’s degree (although we’re not warning against it). But weekly hobby classes—in cooking, improvisational comedy or pottery making, for example—will not only help you both bond over shared activities, but can also introduce you to other like-minded couples, as well. And if you’re new to the city, you might find they’re more than happy to tell you about the newest hot spots in your neighborhood.

8. Take A Day Trip

Is there a nearby city or town neither of you know anything about? One entirely off the beaten path? Don’t let an undiscovered gem pass you by. Chances are, there are great restaurants, shops, galleries and activities waiting to be unearthed by both of you. For an even more romantic adventure, treat yourself to an overnight stay in a bed and breakfast or five star hotel.

9. Go Bar Hopping

No, you may not be in your 20s aymore. And you may not even be heavy drinkers. That doesn’t mean you can’t throw caution to the wind and enjoy an old-fashioned pub crawl… even if it means having coffee instead of beer. Bar hopping is an ideal way to get to know the locals in your neighborhood—and we’ve never heard of a neighborhood where the locals don’t take an immediate liking to couples.

10. Try The Unlikely

Are you both avid sports fans? Try going to a poetry reading instead. Do you consider yourselves highly sophisticated bon vivants? Don’t be afraid to step foot inside a pool hall. Don’t fall into the habit of embracing only what the expected. Try the most unlikely events, restaurants or excursions you can think of. By sticking with the familiar, you’re depriving yourself of a wealth of experiences that can be as enriching as they are lively. Life’s too short to repeat yourselves.

Maybe that fizzled out a long time ago.

Sure, there’s lots of things you can do together to add some life to a dull routine. A nature hike. Scuba diving. The beach. Tennis lessons. But what happens when it’s pouring outside? What if you’re an urban dweller several hours away from a scenic getaway? What if neither of you are particularly outdoors-y? And what if your ideal getaway is simply at home in front of a fire with a glass or two of wine?

Routine may bring a sense of familiarity, but it also brings predictability. Boredom. And frequently frustration. As a result, you can sometimes find yourselves drifting apart. And if you drift too far apart, you may find that romance fading slowly away. Along with your time.

The good news? There are simple everyday things you can do together both in the home and away from the home which can rekindle that spark! You don’t have to travel hours away to rediscover what made you fall in love with one another. Whether you’re cooped up in the house or simply want to explore all your city has to offer you, couple activities can be both mundane and inventive. Exciting and comforting. Romantic and sentimental. And above all, fun. And the best news?

Many of them are completely free.

Whether you’re looking to reignite your intimacy or simply want to spend more quality time together, here’s 10 of the best indoor activities for couples on your next rainy day.

Indoor Couple Activities At Home

There’s more to indoor activities with your partner than watching TV. A lot more. As the old saying goes, the couple that plays together stays together. You don’t have to fall into the same old dull routine the next time you find yourselves stuck in the house. There’s always plenty of time to catch up on your favorite shows. Here’s some activities for you as a couple to try at home.

Cooking

Have a favorite recipe you’re dying to test out? Haven’t found the time or the opportunity to do so yet? While eating may be one of the most common ways two or more people bond, there’s something particularly intimate about the act of cooking together. It’s as much about the joy of creation as it is the joy of sharing. Neither of you may be Jacques Pepin (in fact, you may actually wind up butchering something as simple as scrambled eggs if you’re like many of us), but the simple act of cooking together can bring you closer than you ever imagined⁠—no matter how messy or disastrous the results might be.

Board Games

Monopoly does not have a monopoly on board games. There’s plenty of adult board games available for couples⁠. Some are nostalgic. Some are whimsical. And some are, yes… risque. That’s part of the fun. Whether you’re feeling playful, competitive or just plain “randy”, there’s a board game to suit your needs. Who knows? You might even have some old favorites collecting dust in your basement.

Exercise

A healthy body might mean a healthy mind, but healthy bodies mean healthy relationships. You don’t have to spend an exorbitant amount at your local gym to enjoy the benefits of exercising together. Whether it’s free weights, yoga, callisthenics or tossing a medicine ball back and forth, get in touch with your body. It will help you get in touch with each others’, as well.

Art Therapy

No, neither of you may be Rembrandt. But that doesn’t mean you can’t create art together. Remember, creative expression is fairly versatile. It can include everything from painting together to practicing a musical instrument to scrap booking; the possibilities are endless. Why not take turns at writing your own novel—with yourselves as the main characters? It just might teach you more about one another than you ever imagined.

Start Your Bucket List

This actually isn’t as morbid as many people assume. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. Creating a bucket list can be a life affirming exercise that can teach you just how much you have yet to explore in life together. Whether it’s taking an off-the-beaten path excursion to a distant locale or simply learning a hobby, couple activities are just as dependent on seizing the moment as anything else in life. Don’t confine yourself to the ordinary. There’s an entire world of vast and strange experiences waiting for the both of you.

Indoor Couple Activities Away From Home

Of course, there’s no reason why couple activities need to be enjoyed enjoyed from the comfort of your own home. Sometimes you simply need to get away—and there’s a good chance an entire city you haven’t explored yet is out there only several blocks away. If you’re both feeling cabin fever, here’s some surefire cures:

Museum And Gallery Openings

Don’t passively observe reproductions of art through books. Experience them up close and in person. Even if you can’t tell a Rauschenberg from a Rothko, you can both learn and grow together through actively exploring your local art culture. You’d be surprised how much local talent is hiding right underneath your nose.

Adult Education

No, we don’t necessarily mean going back for your Master’s degree (although we’re not warning against it.) But weekly hobby classes—in cooking, improvisational comedy or pottery making, for example—will not only help you both bond over shared activities, but can also introduce you to other like-minded couples, as well. And if you’re new to the city, you might find they’re more than happy to tell you about the newest hot spots in your neighborhood.

Take a Day Trip

Is there a nearby city or town neither of you knows anything about? One entirely off the beaten path? Don’t let an undiscovered gem pass you by. Chances are, there’s great restaurants, shops, galleries and activities waiting to be unearthed by both of you.  For an even more romantic adventure, treat yourself to an overnight stay in a bed and breakfast or five-star hotel.

Go Bar Hopping

No, you may not be in your 20s anymore. And you may not even be heavy drinkers. That doesn’t mean you can’t throw caution to the wind and enjoy an old-fashioned pub crawl… even if it means having coffee instead of beer. Bar hopping is an ideal way to get to know the locals in your neighbourhood—and we’ve never heard of a neighbourhood where the locals don’t take an immediate liking to couples.

Try The Unlikely

Are you both avid sports fans? Try going to a poetry reading instead. Do you consider yourselves highly sophisticated Bon vivants? Don’t be afraid to step foot inside a pool hall. Don’t fall into the habit of embracing only what the expected. Try the most unlikely events, restaurants or excursions you can think of. By sticking with the familiar, you’re depriving yourself of a wealth of experiences that can be as enriching as they are lively. Life’s too short to repeat yourselves.

Are you looking for a stronger relationship… or just a new international friend? Whatever you’re looking for, Ukraine Brides Agency is here to help you! Visit our website today.

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BRIAN (THE USA) – IRINA (UKRAINE) – MAY 2019

June 8, 2019 by


One of the most beautiful seasons is spring, isn’t it? It is a time of love and happiness. We are anxious to share with you great news. Our new couple Brian and Irina are together and planning to get married.

When did it start?

Irina and Brian got acquainted on our web site on the 6th of March. Most noteworthy, their communication from the very first chat and letter gave hope to both of them that this is for real and they both decided not to talk to anybody else on the website! In a couple of days Irina received her first romantic gift from Brian – a bouquet of flowers – it was the 8th of March – International Women’s Day! Such an action from Brian impressed her and Irina’s heartfelt that he is the One for her.

They communicated daily – sharing news, talking about everything and their feelings developed day by day! Certainly, every weekend they had video-chats. As a true gentleman, Brian helped Irina to get to the agency’s office by offering transportation to her. Hence, every single step he took to persuade Irina that he will love her, appreciate, protect and take care of his lady.
Nevertheless, they agreed to meet in Zaporizhzhia – on the 18th of May and their first meeting was fabulous!
More relevant, Irina completely showed her seriousness and she introduced Brian to her mother! Even more, her mother Tatiana was so welcoming. Therefore, she treated her future son-in-law with national cuisine which totally impressed Brian!

Moreover, their meeting was romantic and adventurous. They have seen many places in Zaporizhzhia and its region. Hence, the most exciting emotions are only awaiting this beautiful couple! Furthermore, Brian proposed to Irina and they have started the process for her to get K-1 visa!
We all congratulate Irina and Brian! We wish you a lifetime of love and happiness!

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Acceptable Lies on a First Date

June 5, 2019 by
Man and woman on a date

As a general rule, dishonesty is never encouraged in dating. Well, it does apply in every aspect of our lives. Whether it is your relationship with your parents, friends, significant other or boss, telling lies is a big no-no! However, there will always be times when you’d wish you said something else or probably kept certain things to yourself. Why? Because many times, the truth leads to trouble – trouble which could have been entirely avoided if you told acceptable lies.

Lies, whether they’re the white variety or the kind that come from a bad place, have corresponding repercussions. So when do lies become acceptable? When are you allowed to be less than little honest? For valid reasons, telling lies on a first date is justifiable as long as it’s only temporary and they are not too large. Otherwise, you might find yourself losing that one shot at finally finding the one you’ve been waiting for all because you lied. 

So what are the acceptable lies you can tell on a first date?

Your name

No, this isn’t permission to adopt a new identity. You can’t go from being an Emily to introducing yourself as Charlotte. If you’re looking for a hookup, that’s completely understandable and acceptable. However, if the reason you’re even dating in the first place is to end up in a relationship, it’s an absolute no-no.

What this means is you don’t have to give them your full name. You don’t even have to tell them your given name. If your parents named you Emily, it’s fine if you introduce yourself by your nickname Emma.

So, why is lying a little about your name advisable? It’s because there’s no guarantee that your date will go well or will lead to more dates. For safety purposes, use your nickname. That way, you can avoid creeps who will definitely stalk you online once they get the chance to.

Your address

Lying about your address is also suggested for your safety. You don’t want to run the risk of your horrible date showing up at your door completely unannounced, with a bouquet of roses and chocolates and an apology for insulting you on your first date. Chances are that many of the first dates won’t lead to second, third, fourth, or fifth dates. So, don’t give away your address just yet unless you want unwelcome visitors turning up at your door.

Lying about your address isn’t permission to fake your identity, as well. Don’t tell them you live in an upscale neighborhood just because you want to impress them or feel superior.

Your five year plan

This isn’t a job interview so there’s no need to let your date know where you see yourself five years from now. Yes, your ultimate goal may be to find a loving and happy relationship. However, telling your date that you want to be happily married and become a parent to adorable kids isn’t going to fool them into thinking that you’re insanely attracted to them. Remember this is a first date and not a marriage proposal.

Your culinary preferences

Allergies are understandable and are one of the things that you should never lie about. So, if he offers you a bite of his rotisserie chicken, say no, instead of politely tasting his food. But don’t forget to offer an explanation. Instead of lying to them about how you dislike the texture and taste of chicken, just tell them that you’re allergic to chicken. Trust me. Even if you bring antihistamine with you, it won’t work like magic and prevent you from having allergic reactions.

Your exact job title

No, don’t lie about your job. Don’t say you’re a model when you’re a primary school teacher. Again, this is a date, not a job interview. Instead of telling them what you do for a living, tell them the things you like about the industry you work in.

Your annual salary

This is pretty self-explanatory. Don’t tell them how much you make. Be modest and don’t brag or complain about how much you get paid. First dates aren’t a suitable time to give them a sneak peek of your bank account.

Your thoughts upon seeing their profile

This is applicable when you’re dating someone you met through online dating. Yes, you believe in love at first sight. But you know better than to date someone just because they’re attractive.

Their profiles probably contain a little description of their personality or, at least, how they see themselves. If you found them a little boring and archived their profile to narrow down your choices, but later decided to give them a chance, that’s okay. But don’t give them a detailed narration of your step by step process when selecting who you want to date. Besides, it’s just not polite.

Your dating history

In this day and age, it’s totally okay to go on as many first dates. The logic behind it is you don’t want to miss out on possibly the love of your life. If the night before, you went out on a date with someone else, your current date doesn’t need to know. Exclusivity is decided upon after a few dates.

Your current life state

First dates are meant to be fun. This isn’t your support group where you air out every bit of your dirty laundry for everyone to see. Or even if you met your date in the aforementioned support group, it still isn’t advisable to talk about your life dramas on a date. Whining about life takes the fun and romance out of dates. Show a positive attitude, that’s more attractive.

How much you’ve enjoyed their company

So, the night comes to a close. By now, you’ve probably formed an opinion about your date. If you want to see them again, it’s because you’ve enjoyed the time you’ve spent with them. If you can’t wait to leave that place, it’s because they’re just not the type you’re looking for.

And there’s nothing wrong about that. However, that’s still not a license to tell them that you’ve had the absolute worst time. Politeness can go a long way. Who knows? You might meet them again under different circumstances.

Flattery

Flattering someone or making them feel good about themselves doesn’t always have to be based on a lie. However, sometimes it does. Telling your date they look good or laughing at a corny joke can be acceptable lies on a first date. Regardless of what form it is, a little flattery can go a long way. 

Family relationships

There’s no such thing as a perfect family. Nobody comes from a perfect home. There will always be issues but that isn’t something that should really be discussed on a first date. Avoid talking about your emotional baggage but there’s no need to make up an entire lie. What you can do is to breeze past questions that are a little too personal or emotional, especially when it concerns your relationships with your family members. Save it for the succeeding dates when you two are already comfortable with each other.

Your past relationships

If things work out between you and your date, you will eventually learn about each other’s relationship history. However, first dates aren’t the perfect time to talk about it. Take it easy on the oversharing. In the meantime, just tell them that things didn’t quite work out in the past but there’s no need to let them know how you had your heart broken. At least, not now.

Date location

Some people put a lot of effort into planning a first date. So when your date brings you to a restaurant you’ve tried before, you don’t have to let them know you came there a couple of years ago. Otherwise, you’ll be deflating their confidence and burst their excitement.

It’s also the same when your date has surprised you with an activity you didn’t entirely expect. It won’t hurt to tell them it was a lovely idea even if you don’t think it is.

That you share similar interests they do

So maybe you want to have a second or third date perhaps, but you have no idea about the recent movie they are talking about. And since you’re also into movies, it wouldn’t be bad if you lie a little and tell them you’re looking forward to seeing that movie, too. Who knows, it might help you get a next date at the movies?

How much you’ve stalked them

Thanks to social media, we now have the power to do a little research about someone before meeting them in person. However, even if you’ve already checked their photos, found out more about their interests and know the history of their relationships, be sure not to spill it during your date. Be careful not to drop a hint that you’ve done your research as it might creep them out. Just keep asking questions to sound interested and clueless. Besides, there’s so much more to learn about a person besides the information found on their social media.

How much you drink

If you’re hanging out at a bar on your first date, the best thing to do is to lie about how much you like to drink. No matter how high your alcohol tolerance is, it’s never a good idea to make that known during your first date. Just keep that information to yourself because you don’t want them to think you’re alcoholic or unstable.

How you feel about them

While there are unsuccessful first dates, there are amazing dates, too. However, even if you really enjoyed your time with your date and look forward to seeing them again, you shouldn’t make it obvious. It’s okay to thank them and let them know you’ve had a great time. But that’s it. Do not overdo it and avoid making them feel you got attached too easily. It might just push them away.

First dates are a perfect time to get to know someone better and that is why honesty and truthfulness are expected. However, to make sure you stay away from trouble and help you score a chance at a second date, telling the acceptable lies in this list would be totally fine.

Ready to find an ideal match or potential date? Please feel free to visit Ukraine Brides Agency. 

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FEEDBACK ABOUT TRIP TO UKRAINE FROM BRIAN (USA)

June 1, 2019 by

Our client Brian came from a beautiful Florida to see his Ukrainian Bride in May 2019. We are happy to share with you his feedback about the trip to Ukraine.

It is Brian’s first trip to Ukraine. Moreover, he feels completely safe over here. Brian kindly shares with us his thoughts about Ukrainian women. He considers them to be genuine and natural in the way of their behaviour.

Brian also mentions that he is rather satisfied with the services and the quality of work of Ukraine Brides Agency. Our Team does everything possible to make our clients be satisfied and happy.

Brian also recommends having a well-qualified interpreter in a country where you are travelling. He recommends out services and web site to other clients who are looking for women with serious intentions.

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Best Opening Lines to Start a Conversation in Online Dating Sites

May 25, 2019 by
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An amazing dating experience begins with having a great conversation. However, starting a conversation doesn’t always come easy, especially when you’re trying to get to know someone for the first time. So you’ve signed up to online dating sites and downloaded a number of apps, but are you ready to send that first message? The pressure may be immense but don’t worry! Even if you think that being a great conversationalist isn’t your forte, we’ve got some helpful tips to start a conversation both for online dating sites and in real life!

Pay a compliment

Whether we admit it or not, receiving a little ego stroke every now and then makes us feel good. This trick works a lot in online dating conversations. Try to read through a person’s profile first before sending them a message. When you find something that impresses you or something about them you admire, feel free to use it to strike a conversation. It doesn’t always have to be related to how they look. You can talk about their personality, their interests or anything that makes them a really interesting person.

Ask an intriguing question

Instead of asking the same typical question “Hey, what’s up?”, which most likely won’t get you any response, you might want to ask a more interesting or intriguing question. If your online date is someone who loves dogs, you could ask them about their best dog story. If they have a penchant for superhero movies, maybe you can ask them about the superpower they wish to have.

Again, always refer to their bio or profile description. You can find a ton of information that can help you formulate questions that will increase your chances of getting a response.

Mention similarities you’ve found on their profile

Do you share common interests based on their profile? Do you have similar hobbies or share the same preferences when it comes to movies, music, food and other things? Don’t hesitate to mention it when you send them a message. If you want to strike up a conversation with someone who loves to go hiking and you happen to do that a lot, you can ask them about the highest mountain they’ve climbed or their most thrilling hiking experience. If they’re hooked on the same TV series as you are, you can ask about their favorite episodes or character.

Comment about one of their photos

There is always a reason why you’re drawn to a particular person while browsing through profiles on an online dating site. More often than not, it’s got something to do with their profile photo. If you think they’re good looking, don’t hesitate to let them know. If it’s about the location where the photo was taken, you can ask them where it was taken. Notice the details in the photo as you might find anything that can help you start a casual conversation. If their photo tells you they’re a big fan of the Beatles or if they love coffee just like you, then that’s a great topic to start an interesting conversation.

Suggest meeting up

People sign up for online dating sites for one sole purpose – to find their ideal match. So even if conversations begin by exchanging emails and sending messages through chats, there will always come a time when things have to move forward. Things will eventually have to be taken offline. So there’s no reason to beat around the bush. Cut right to the point and suggest meeting up. Tell them why you think you’re going to have a great time offline and invite them along for brunch or coffee. Or if you both share the same penchant for adventures, you can ask if they can free up their weekend for a hiking trip or a road trip to any random destination.

Striking up a conversation may feel challenging at first and there’s no guarantee you’ll get the response you want. However, stepping out of your comfort zone and veering away from the typical conversation starters might be all the magic you need to increase your online dating success.

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FEEDBACK ABOUT OUR SERVICES FROM OUR CLIENT DAVE (CHANDLER, THE USA)

May 14, 2019 by

​We are happy to share with you a beautiful review from our client Dave. Dave ensures that our site is legitimate and trustworthy. The women are not paid to write letters to men and to do video chats with men.

Dave also states that women are sincerely looking for a husband. Personally, Dave decided to meet a lady through Ukraine Brides Agency and he is indeed satisfied with our service.

He is happy about the meeting with the lady. They spent together for 5 hours and everything went awesome. He recommends to be honest and show what and who you are looking for. Do not put a mask on your face. Be honest with women. He finds exchanging letters a great step to start the communication. Further video chats will give you a tremendously great opportunity to find out who is sitting in front of you and whether she is the right choice.

It has been his 3rd trip to Ukraine. He was traveling on his own and also recommends not to be afraid of anything because Ukraine is safe.​

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5 Best Places Where You Can Meet a Ukrainian Girl

May 11, 2019 by
Beautiful Ukrainian girl

One of the things that makes Ukraine very popular is the fact that it’s a country where some of the world’s most beautiful women can be found. Ukrainian women are indeed some of the most sought after ladies in the world, not only because of their charm and beauty but also because of the qualities that make them captivating. Anyone who has met a Ukrainian girl can attest that they are more than just pretty faces. They are smart, family-oriented, loyal and they make perfect life partners. These and more are the reasons why a lot of men could only wish to be married to a Ukrainian wife. But where can you exactly meet a Ukrainian girl? Keep reading to find out!

Kiev

It isn’t enough that you fly straight to Ukraine and find Ukrainian singles without doing a bit of research on where to go. It’ll save you a lot of time and energy to know exactly where you’re headed. Kiev, as the capital city of Ukraine, has the largest population among all cities in the country. Because it is home to Ukraine’s finest and most renowned universities, this is one of the best places to go if you want to meet a Ukrainian lady.

If you’re a first-time visitor, you will be amazed to find so many beautiful women just by walking around the streets of Kiev. However, it’s going be a lot easier for you if you know where these women spend most of their free time. Try going for a little bar-hopping at night or look for some chill spots where most women relax after their long day. Be sure not to confine yourself within the center of the city. Feel free to explore and step a little further outside of the main area.

Lviv

Next to Kiev, Lviv is another city in Ukraine where you can meet a lot of pretty Ukrainian ladies. No matter the season, Lviv is always a perfect place to visit if you wish to date Ukraine singles. One of the best things about Lviv is that it offers an entirely different feel from that of Kiev; more like an old town kind of vibe. You might also notice that the women here look a bit different from the girls in Kiev and other parts of the country. It’s because they resemble the people from the neighboring countries like Poland, Slovakia and Hungary. But one thing’s for sure: They are just as attractive as any other lady you can find in the country.

Ukrainian women from Lviv are also more laid back and reserved. So, if you’re planning to visit this part of Ukraine, be sure to stay a little bit longer.

Cafes and restaurants

When you’re in Ukraine, one specific spot you can visit to increase your chances of talking to a Ukrainian are cafes and restaurants. These places are usually packed with beautiful Ukraine singles who are hanging out either alone or with friends. These places are perfect for when you want to strike a conversation or do small talk.

Art galleries or theatres

If you’re someone who has a penchant for music or works of art, you might want to consider visiting art galleries and theatres so you can meet Ukrainian ladies who share the same interests. This way, it’ll be a lot easier for you to start a conversation. You might even be able to find a potential match who is compatible with you.

Online dating sites

If travelling to Ukraine isn’t an option at the moment, don’t worry! There’s one excellent way you can try to meet the Ukrainian girl of your dreams – online dating. Online dating isn’t just convenient, but it’s also a very promising way to help singles around the world find their ideal match.

Because finding the perfect Ukrainian match is a lot easier in online dating and there are a plethora of online dating sites and apps available on the internet, be sure to select a reputable dating site. Start your online dating journey by signing up at Ukraine Brides Agency. Please feel free to give us a call for more information.

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