relationship advice

New! 20 cent chats are available

July 29, 2013 5

We have just introduced text chats for 20c per minute to follow on from our full video chats which include camera, microphone and text. If you are wanting to know more about a new lady and the relationship is in its early stages, this is an easy way to get to know your new lady… read more

You are in Control

July 25, 2013 0

We have made a number of improvements lately to allow you to change settings in your profile so that you can streamline communications and visibility on the site to how you want it to be. The latest upgrade was to put a filter into your inbox and sent messages so you can filter out nudges… read more

Wow – What a Reaction

July 18, 2013 0

Last week I emailed you about the changes we have made so that only ladies who are on the site for the same purpose as you can contact you. Wow, did this create a lot of emails and activity. It seems this has been extremely popular with many men updating their profile immediately, including many… read more

Your Choice

July 11, 2013 0

Men and ladies join the site and use it for a variety of reasons – genuinely searching for a marriage partner is the predominant reason but there are other reasons, which are entirely acceptable. Some are looking for friendship and take comfort from having friends overseas, which may lead to a relationship, while others look… read more

Time is Precious

July 4, 2013 0

We have started on a campaign to make the site a little leaner to save you wasted time. While we have many new ladies listed every week (and you can see some of them below) we also have ladies who become inactive for a variety of reasons and they dont delete their profiles. They may… read more

Cost of Messages

May 29, 2013 4

I have had a couple of emails this week from guys who are confused on the cost of messages. They understand that they must pay so that translators and agency fees (rent, internet, computers etc) can be paid to provide the service, but we do things a little differently than other sites and it takes… read more

I Stand By My Word

May 22, 2013 0

I have been stating for some time that I am getting serious about the agencies that I work with and that they must adhere to strict standards and be genuine. I had problems with an agency recently (usually prompted by feedback from men) that the agency was not controlling their ladies and that they were… read more

A Difficult Week

May 15, 2013 2

Over the last week some of you have been having problems buying credits through Paypal. For some reason, what had worked perfectly for a long time, with the most secure and largest payment system in the world, started to reject purchases. I have been in contact with Paypal constantly over that period of time and… read more

Exciting Times!

May 1, 2013 0

Over the last two weeks I have written about out Three Cities Tour of Kiev, Poltava and Kharkov. There was lots of interest in this tour. We now have our next tour ready and we are looking at a date of July 1 for this tour. It is called Pearl By The Sea and it… read more

Maturity may be the Key

April 24, 2013 3

I had some correspondence last week with Julian. He had his first video chat and was remarking to me about how well it went and that he and his lady seemed to hit it off really well first time. I looked at the ladies profile and I noted that she was 41 years old. I… read more