How to Know if it’s True Love

December 15, 2017 at 6.00am by in Dating advice
True Love Concept

People would say that true love and perfect romance are hard to find. It could be true for some, but not for everyone. If you are lucky, you could find the real love you are looking for with your first relationship. But if you are unlucky, you might have to go through painful and excruciating heartbreaks or failed relationships first before finally finding your perfect match. We may have different experiences and expectations in love and relationships, but one thing is for sure – we all want to find true love.

So if you haven’t found your true love yet, here are some of the ways you can tell if it’s the one you’re looking for.

1. You stopped looking for your soulmate

You will know if you have found true love if you have finally stopped looking for a better person for you. It is when you don’t feel interested to entertain other people anymore because the person you are with right now is the one that’s making you happy. And you feel that with them, you are already complete and you’ve got nothing else to ask for.

2. You make your partner happy without expecting anything in return

True love is unconditional. It means that you are willing to do anything for your significant other without asking and expecting anything in return. The only reason you feel motivated to put in efforts for them is simply because you find joy in seeing them happy and nothing else.

3. You entrust everything to your partner, even your deepest secrets

It is not easy to be open and be completely transparent, especially if you are not the person who is used to sharing a lot of things with others. But, when you are truly in love, it is easy to trust someone with everything you have. You feel safe to tell them anything and everything because you love them.

4. You easily forgive

When you love someone, you could still feel anger and pain if they do something that hurt or upset you. But, you can’t stand to be mad at them for a long time. You easily forgive when they apologize because it hurts you more to see them getting hurt, too.

5. You are willing to sacrifice

One perfect definition of true love is sacrifice. And when you feel like you can sacrifice anything for your partner, it means that you truly love them. Even if it means that you have to give up some of the things that are important to you, you make sacrifices for the sake of their wellbeing and happiness.

6. You go an extra mile

You truly love someone when you never stop going an extra mile and exerting efforts to constantly make your significant other feel loved. You never run out of ways to express your love for them because you want them to always see your affection and care. You just feel happy when you know that you please them and that you make them feel special.

7. You can’t imagine hurting them

This is another good way to measure true love – not hurting the one you love. If your love is real, you won’t do anything that would break your partner’s heart because you know it would break your heart, too. You can’t imagine seeing them cry or get upset because of something you did. Whether it is physical or emotional, you just won’t be able to inflict pain on them because you love them.

8. You don’t give up on them

Being in a relationship is not a walk in the park. All relationships go through trials and challenges. But if you truly love someone, you won’t easily give up or let go just because your relationship is being tested. Adverse circumstances will come no matter how much you try to avoid them, but if you love your partner enough and love each other enough, you will overcome these trials. You will continually hold on because you have faith in your love. In the end, you will come out stronger together if your love is real.

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