April 30, 2017 at 10.09pm by in Dating advice

“I have been on the site for several years already and I can see the same ladies still single and searching for a partner. Is there something wrong with them or what?” This is the most often asked question from men using a dating site about the ladies who are still single. I well understand their concern and want to comment on this.


Online dating vs real communication

Many men say that some ladies are a bit picky in their search for a life partner, especially young and extraordinarily beautiful ones. They get a lot of attention and therefore think that they may choose. Actually, don’t men do the same? 🙂 Online dating is not just a one-on-one communication, so writing letters to each other may not yet be considered a serious relationship. Choosing and comparing is a natural process at this stage as only a personal meeting may show you that you have met the right person and that there is “chemistry” between the two of you. This chemistry is what keeps you together as a couple and makes you stop searching for someone else.

Models of on-line behavior of the single

We do our best to help our members to find their soul mate. However, it’s not an easy and quick process. Many ladies on the site are extremely active as they search in an attempt to find their love and create a family soon, as time flows really fast. They often send introductory letters to get the chance to catch the eye of a potential life partner. The others prefer to consider their choice and to take a measured decision. The same is quite true about many men on the site. I personally think you can easily distinguish them just by looking through their personal information.

An ultimate goal?

Do you want a life partner whose only goal in life is to get married? Ukrainian women really do want to start a family. I already mentioned that this is a very important factor for them in the article about Ukrainian ladies.

But if you think that this is the only goal in their life – you are terribly wrong. Ukrainian ladies do a lot of things in their everyday life. Most Ukrainian ladies work, communicate with their relatives, spend their free time with friends and develop their personality. If you are curious to know more, you may read about it by following this link: https://blog.ukrainebridesagency.com/day-in-a-life-of-a-single-ukrainian-women

Single ladies’ usual pastime

Many Ukrainian ladies learn foreign languages, acquire various hobbies, do handcrafts of different kinds (a very popular pastime among Ukrainian ladies!), go to dance sessions and grow plants. See? Life in Ukraine taught them to be proactive. Therefore, they don’t just sit and wait for a prince on a white horse (though, that may be exactly what they do in their spare time) 🙂 So, if a lady isn’t on-line on the site all the time – do not take it as a disinterest. However, be alert enough to see that when she starts off communicating with you as a friend it may lead to a potential partner.


 They keep energy for you!

A wise woman (even a single one) understands that being a wife is not just living together. There are many, often unseen, daily tasks to which she needs to be prepared and trained. I very well know myself that doing household chores is not something you can easily succeed in when you first leave your parent’s house! Furthermore, it requires years of training to do such routines automatically. In this way, they spare enough energy for something more interesting, like a hobby or communication with a partner. Keeping their feet grounded and being in a good mood truly takes a lot of effort.

Success rate

We really do have many happy couples. Most of them, unfortunately, prefer to keep their relationship private after exchanging personal information. The happy moments of their marriage, which are almost never allowed to be shared is what makes all our efforts worthwhile. You can see success stories of many couples and judge for yourself if on-line dating works or not:  https://blog.ukrainebridesagency.com/category/success-stories . Some couples decide ona marriage after just 6 months!

Individual matchmaking service

I hope that this article was useful for you and will help you in your search for a special lady. The Ukraine Brides Agency team believes that every person has the chance to meet the right person and to be together. For those who are busy searching on the site, we would be pleased to suggest a matchmaking service. Our specialists will be happy to help you find the right person according to criteria that is vital for you. You may learn about our matchmaking service following this link: https://blog.ukrainebridesagency.com/matchmaking-vs-online-dating

I wish you to find your one and only among the others soon and obtain the happiness that everyone deserves!

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